Hey everyone. My husband really wants me to take some sexy photos for him but I’m a bit nervous about it all. We were talking about boudoir and I told him I do find them super sexy and something I would hypothetically consider. That said I’m an anxious dork about this stuff and super nervous . A lot is self confidence related but I do agree with him it seems like a great dipping the toes into being a little bolder with this stuff.

We found a local boudoir company that we really like that does classy lingerie and nude photography. They say they don’t share anything obviously without your consent but I do still have some worries for a variety of reasons and want to remain really discreet so do worry if it’s worth the risk.

Also the female photographer is married while the male is single, and they state this up front and that you can request both or one. My husband really wants me to do the solo with the single male, who is admittedly attractive. That said I’ll def be more nervous in that setting but I do agree it could be good harmless practice to see if this whole thing is appealing in real life for us.

Anyways I’m just looking for advice or watch outs. Hubby has said I should only do what I feel comfortable with and is not being pushy at all