So like I said in my earlier posts, my wife (24) is living in with my friend (27). It had been so far a very understanding and happy journey for all of us, though except for this one time when things got a bit frisky between us. I was having quite a workload during that phase due to which I wasn't able to masturbate and get myself off. So I was over his house and he was in the room and she served me tea. And for one moment, my horniness took over and I forgot how it is and grabbed her arm and pulled her in close.

This sudden gesture from me caught her off guard and she screamed and he rushed out from the room, saw the situation and slapped me twice and I fell down on the couch, then slapped me again. He asked her to go to the room and he verbally bla sted me thereafter. He said what I tried was not wrong but my approach was totally wrong and I should have respected her. He told me to go and tell her a sorry and I went into the room and she was crying. I apologized to her for my actions and headed out.

I am not justifying viol ence, but at the same time I realise that my actions were wrong and I acted on impulse which caught her off guard. So in a way, I deserved those slaps as it really put me back to my senses.