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When it comes to wives and thirds developing feelings for each other, do you think this would help?
I deleted previous posts but my wife brought up me watching her with another guy when talking about a MFM when I told her I may not be able to perform. I think it would be better for our relationship if I participated the first time but I'm not sure I will be capable.
I just now thought of having two other guys as regulars and the first time being a MFM threesome with the two thirds that I want to become regulars.
This guarantees a MFM threesome. I may still participate this way. And it seems like this would help establish in everybody's mind this is purely sexual. I doubt many people have met their spouse this way š
Well my wife and I are in the same boat. I personally feel like I may not be able to perform. I donāt know if I will be hard ready to go when u need to etc. so I mentioned this to her, if itās 3some then two guys and if I wanna join I can and it is a plus that way. Otherwise it is a normal sex thing and I might just watch. Maybe get head but yeah.
My wife also wants to have a gang bang so I guess it sort of works. As long as Iām enjoying it, then she is. She doesnāt wanna pressure me just like she doesnāt wanna be pressured.
Yep, it really depends on your guys comfort level. I can understand where you are coming from and it is perfectly fine.
For me itās ok, because we spoke about it and she shares all the msgs with me. And it is purely a normal convo or a dirty talk , and she makes it clear that there is nothing more to it than a booty call.
She doesnāt share any personal details with them or really not even a regular friendship type thing. Itās just to build some sort of rapport.
Now, I donāt know how it will change later since we are new to this and we donāt necessarily have āregularsā per say although she speaks to a few.
But yeah , we are both open to evolving and changing things as we go along.
For me, that jealousy hits if I feel like there is an emotional bond / attachment, as long as I donāt see that Iām fine.
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Yes I do, my wife feels the same she wants some sort of a connection. Hence she prefers to chat and feel the vibe before she meets.
If she was to have a gangbang, she said she prefers to know the people as opposed to like strangers.
Knowing the person and eventually becoming regulars helps because there is trust and that vibe. So yeah I agree