I just started hotwifing this past summer. I was able to meet up with two guys. Both I really liked. One of them I had met up with four times. I thought everything was going well and he said he enjoyed hooking up / hanging out with me. Then he had some personal issues with his partner and has since resolved them but doesn’t seem interested in me anymore. As far as I know, he’s still looking for others to hookup with. Just not me. The second guy I met up with once. It was amazing. We got along really well and enjoyed our time together. He had a major family emergency come up just as we were planning on meeting up for the second time. Totally understandable that he had to put a pause on seeing / talking to each other. He’s the only exception to this. Other guys have set something up then have ghosted or flaked. Two guys each canceled our first meet up and then both promised they weren’t a flake. They both did the second time. One of those guys was supposed to meet up today, but he said hours before that he wasn’t sure he wanted to go through with it because I’m married and he was worried about catching feelings. I’ve never hid that I’m married and always talk with the other person about what I’m looking for and what the boundaries are. I express that I’m looking for more of a long term fwb. They say they’re okay with all of it then when it comes time to meet up they flake. Is there something wrong with me? Is looking for a long term fwb something I need to give up on and keep it to just casual quick hookups?