Soooo, my wife and I (F46M55) communicate very well and compliment each other unbelievably well, especially in the sexual and fantasy departments. Just having those vulnerable discussions without judgement has made us even closer. Bear in mind, we both come from conservative backgrounds, but have active sexual imaginations. It helps that we both had fantasies about 3-somes or same-room sex with another couple (where we thought we’d start), etc., so for the last year, we’ve been reading (many of the Reddit groups) and talking to LS friends we met but have taken it slow with lots of conversation and hot discussions during sex. The only thing we’ve done is a club with a couple we met with some dancing and a few kisses were exchanged. It was nice and we were both comfortable.

We learned most experienced LS couples are too advanced for our current level of comfort and want to move too fast…so we’re primarily interested in other couples that are also new, but we’re finding it hard to find a couple where all 4 people are compatible. This led to considering Hotwifing as she is the least sexually experienced (she’s only been with me and her ex). She knows I think she’s attractive, classy and sexy, but she’s since discovered that it hits differently coming from other men and I’ve enjoyed seeing the boost to her confidence, even though she is already confident. I can see something different in her eyes and it’s beautiful to me. I’ve since learned the perfectly descriptive word is compersion.

Anyway…tonight…she’s meeting a guy she’s been chatting with in a very public place to see if there’s chemistry. She’s there now. He’s also married with a hall pass. She told him tonight’s meet and greet only and see how it goes. But, she and I decided she has the freedom to choose what she wants to do if it goes well and she’s comfortable and feels safe. She checked in when she got there and I can see her location. I hope she has an enjoyable evening and I’m looking forward to update and her return to my loving arms.

And yes, for the record, she is affording me the same latitude AND we continue to search for couples on our LS level. But for now, this is where we are and I’m good with it.