When I read stories about other people, I think it's sexy when the husband says it seems like the wife made up her mind and it's the point of no return. Like he wanted this and now she's about to fuck.

I read posts here and everybody says anyone should be able to stop it at any time. I agree with this but I have seen hotwives saying that because of emotional ups and downs there would be a point they wouldn't stop or feel like it's not reasonable for them to be expected to.

If I had some guy rubbing the head of his dick on my wife's pussy lips about to enter her, and I suddenly decide I'm not ok with it I would expect to be able to stop it but not really because if she was mad at me over something like this I would probably be ready for a divorce.

But a lot of women who are submissive I fear would go along with the new man. If he wants to do something looking to you to say yes or no or putting you on the spot even if you went over the rules. I wouldn't even want to meet anyone else if we explicitly said no sex because of this. If the other guy was aggressive enough she would probably end up getting fucked in the parking lot and breaking every rule we had. In the situation I wouldn't want to say no and feel like I'm ruining it.

Have you ever been in scenarios like this? Men or women? And how did you feel?