Well, that's my story, my girlfriend is 25 and I'm 29, and we've been together for just over 10 years. The fact is that for more than 5 years I have been thinking about being a sharing couple, at first it was a morbid idea to jerk off when I was alone, a recurring fantasy, but it is taking more and more weight in my head to tell him the truth and that I would like to see it with another. She is totally vanilla in sex, she is not a saint but I suppose she falls within what conventional sex is, I don't think she has problems fucking herself first because she is pretty and has a nice body, and she also likes to look pretty. . But the problem, or at least how I see it, is that by telling her that I want someone else to fuck her and cum with someone else, our relationship could change, in several ways as well. First, she can see me in a different way if I tell her, so that she doesn't see me as a real man to be with all my life. secondly, she could fall in love with a bull and a bigger cock or maybe enjoy another person so much that she no longer needs to be with me and finally, this fear has arisen in me lately since I see that many open to share their woman relationships end up ending (due to many factors, that yes) but I don't want this to end because of a fantasy of mine (which I have not carried out and at the moment I have not shared with anyone, which could make me see her being busted by the bull and instantly regret it haha) that's why I would like to know what views you have on the possible scenarios of my fears, do you think it would be dangerous to involve third parties? Or on the contrary, will it strengthen our relationship? thank you so much