This is just my ideas and thoughts on my personal experiences.

I have been in the LS (I guess I would call it that) for about 2 years now. I don’t consider myself a “Bull” or anything if that nature. Just a fun guy that enjoys a married woman. I’ll explain my thought process around the whole situation.

So, most of the married women I’ve been with and currently see have been tied down for some time. Novices/newbies to the LS for the most part. So, lack of experience with someone more than their husband.

To me, I enjoy being chosen by a women to share these experiences with. Kind of like as a kid and being picked first for the football team. But, the football team being the love of her life. Being desired by a woman to the most intimate thing outside of a marriage. I dont say that in a derogatory way but it being so taboo.

Delivering a great experience, especially for a new wife, the new feeling, passion and lust together and making it that dream/fantasy she “thinks” about in the bath tub when everyone’s asleep.

All in all, it makes me feel good to be chosen to make her fantasy become reality. I’m a pleaser and pleasing is what does it for me.

Just my 2 cents

Thanks y’all!