Clearly, this will not be my first time, but I have written about it from a Hotwife perspective.

If you haven’t read my first story, here’s the link.

Read it first before you scroll down. (I promise it's not clickbait)

https://www.reddit.com/r/HotWifeLifestyle/comments/15d6eud/sharing\_about\_my\_first\_time\_with\_some\_juicy/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3

If you HAVE read my first story, here’s an update:

(I have been getting a number of people asking for an update)

Unfortunately, we were not able to hook up with the guy again. He was only here for a short time visiting family. My husband’s work schedule got really busy (we play together, no solo) and our dates just couldn’t line up before he left. Not sure if we’ll get the chance again in the future with him but I’m not holding my breath.

In the meantime, we’ve been talking to other potential playmates for the last couple months. Not gonna lie, it was getting a little discouraging after a while. It felt like we couldn’t find a match for our dynamic. It was getting a bit tedious and maybe we were getting a little antsy and impatient. Let’s be real, we’re horny.

Anyway… We were sifting through many that had shown interest and some we just couldn’t vibe with them. We couldn’t line up dates, some wouldn’t take no for an answer, some were very pushy, some just wanted to play online only, a few didn’t respect our boundaries, or they were fake and out for pics. There were some that we had to let go and others just straight up disappeared. Honestly, it’s fine but we know we want to find another person to play with and if we didn’t cut some people out, we’d be overwhelmed. Trying to talk to multiple guys and giving them attention, especially to the ones we’re really interested in, got to be a bit much for us to handle. We do have lives outside of the LS so if we had to make cuts, it was because it was in our best interest.

HOWEVER

We did connect with one guy who is close in our area. We got to meet him in person a few days ago and it went really well. We both had an easy time talking with him and nerd out on common interests not related to sex or the LS. He is very attractive and made it pretty obvious that he’s interested. By the end of the night, we were flirting and giving flattering remarks. We asked whatever questions we needed, voiced any concerns, reiterated boundaries, and talked about our schedules. We plan to hook up tomorrow! I will do my best to post about it with as much detail as possible (if my first story is any indication, you already know).