With the general purpose behind this kink centering on pampering the wife, I really want to hear from husbands how much more attentiveness, affection and love they receive from their partners. How does she make you feel just as desired, attractive or amazing as the attention, dates/vacations and wonderous sex she receives makes her feel? Whether it's cooking your favorites, reserving days where she's completely available to you, planning outings to do things you enjoy or, but together or just taking more opportunities to remind you how much she loves you through affirming words or random gifts. I think it's pretty special how men are willing to share their wives with no expectation of anything more and would like to think it's rewarded in some way.