I am a very frequent bull/third whatever term you want to use. My question to couples, or even other thirds. When things get a little awkward when do you call it off yourself. If the wife and husband aren’t in agreement with everything done, do you stop to avoid their disagreement? If expectations are set and the roles were established beforehand, do you go through with it, even if one or the other is iffy about it all? I had a weird scenario where nothing wrong was done, things were going fantastic, but he just had a change of heart and I got dressed and left. They reached out later stating I should have waited till they discussed it and then we could continue.