So - wife (46) and I (48) have been married for over 20 years, have an incredible, open honest, relationship. Each others biggest fans, and have what I would consider an exceptional sex life. We both have the desire for her to be with other men in some capacity. We discuss it openly and honestly in and out of the bedroom, and I really think we are built well for this lifestyle even if turns into an only once thing . We browse guys on Reddit together and have code words for guys she likes when in public….we feel like we are 99% ready, but it feels like we have been here a while. Or is it a sign that we aren’t as ready as we think? Does that last 1% disappear when you are truly ready or do you have to “push through” a little trepidation when we are already so close and happy? We would really love to know how others got over that last 1% of “what if we fuck it all up” feeling. Or was that feeling not there? Anyone have any advice or wisdom if you were also in the 99% ready camp for a while?