Has anyone punched a lifestyle with their significant other and had to play the long game? I’m not saying that I’m being pushy or persuasive, I’m quite the opposite it and giving my wife some time to process everything and come into her ow. I hear a lot of stories of a partner finding out about this fantasy and being on board or taking a little time to process and then being on board. However, is there anyone out there that took more than five years for your partner to come around to the idea? If so, was there any major turning point or something that just clicked?

My wife is in’t for it, however, we do use it as dirty, talk and sexual teasing between us. When I first mentioned it to her three years ago, it was met with tears, but we are way past that point. I always joke that we are on the 10 year plan, but three years in and it looks like that could be the timetable… If it happens.

Thanks!