Hello! Me and the wife are talking about the hotwife scenario. And she is opened to the idea, but as we talk about the subject questions rise up. Last talk we had she thought it will be awkward having sex with another man with me in the same room watching, or participating in a threesome. And another was to have sex for the first time with a stranger for the first time. we are on our mid fourties’ and we haven’t been with anyone else. In 25 years. So it’s a big jump for both of us. So I wonder girls how you did you overcome your fears and doubts with having sex with you soulmate beside you and with a stranger first time. Makes us nervous just to think about it.