So this is the story of how I got into the lifestyle, only to become addicted to it. This story happened when I was 24 years old.

Started a relationship with my now ex gf when I was 17 and she was 16. We were each others firsts and we were both always pretty adventurous when it came to sex although I was always slightly more jealous than she was. Fast forward a few years and my gf had to go abroad as part of an obligatory internship. Obviously we both were affected by the lack of sex but she used to send a lot of photos to keep me interested and we had virtual sex roughly once a week. Out of the blues, she once asked for a hallpass. I was angry because never in my life would I have thought that it would be okay for a person to share their SO with someone else. She said that I either agree to it or she would still fuck someone else without my consent. Eventually, due to this ultimatum, I gave in and agreed to a hallpass with pre-defined rules. We didn't speak of it and we had agreed we'd discuss it when she got back. Once she got back and we were having sex, she started telling me the whole story and that is when I got massively turned about the whole thing. I loved hearing all the details whilst we were having sex.

Few months down the line, she created tinder and used to hook up with a guy regularly.