Hey guys, we had our first Hotwife experience with a mutual friend, and things are going well, but our friend is actively looking for a long-term partner so we don't know how long he will stay single for.

We've tried looking with strangers on Reddit in the past, but she quickly became overwhelmed and annoyed by the process as you can imagine.

I brought it up again, and she seems interested in eventually exploring if this doesn't work out. Still, she's concerned she won't feel as comfortable with a stranger as with our current situation.

Any advice? So far it's clear she likes the lifestyle and loves how horny we've become. The dress-up process, being wanted by a different man, trying new things, and the reclaiming process.

I think it'll come down to me having to personally narrow it down for her, setting up a date as a group, and there being chemistry for any of this to work which may be more work than I can hold her interest for long enough to go through with.

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