Former playmate recognized me and the situation from my post. Backstory he was regular for couple years. Ended when he got into exclusive relationship. We moved pretty quick after. He sent an email invite to his wedding. We did not go. We socialized with the two of them before moving. She is much younger than him an kinda irritating. In his DM he said they are about to divorce. He also said before wedding they had sexual history talk and he outed us to her. We still have a lot of friends in area. He really got aroused by my BDSM post and asked to be included again even though lives 5 hours away. I told him I will talk to hubs but I’m not sure what I’m going to do