Okay so my husband has always had a huge sex drive, but mine had extreme highs and lows. For awhile it was really low and that led us to doing some dirty talking to help get me into the mood, because even though we still had sex pretty regularly, I rarely finished and he was determined to make it so we both enjoyed it. Well the dirty talking led to a fantasy of him catching me cheating on him, which after awhile led to the hotwife theme. That was like 3 years ago. Since then I've don't a bunch of sexting and some other small things to kind of dip my toes in. Well last week I finally took the plunge and did the deed with another man in front of my husband. The major problem was the guy sucked in bed. I'm looking for advice to kind of weed out the bad ones (if that's possible). Thanks in advance and feel free to send a chat if you'd like.