The wife and I have been together since 2005', we married in 2008' and we had our first fun experience in 2010'. A friendly night with my buddy and his wife ended in a full swap. Not long after that my buddy started randomly visiting to join my wife and I. Then, life happened and we all went our own ways. By the end of 2022' my wife and I had been working out and eating healthy for the previous year. We decided we wanted to get back to feeling our sexiest, and needed time to meet those goals. Another goal I had been endorsing was the possibility of my wife reclaiming her sexier and more curious days, using her freshly sculpted 5'2" 115lb, delicious body. It took a lot of time and patience, but I finally conveyed my desire to share her as a hotwife. Initially, she just took it as dirty talk. By the time she hit her weight goals a year later, she was much more curious about the hotwife premise. In time, she allowed me to show her new body off in pics online, and it didn't take long for her to get some amazing attention. One thing lead to the next, and she became more open to online texting, followed by suggesting a coffee date as her first meetup with another man. The coffee date fell through, and over the following month she realized that drawn out texting to get familiar with a potential candidate, was no fun. So we had a trip to outta town, and she ended up connecting us with another man. We had our first date where she and I met another man and she got to fuck him. Not only that but he was bi, and I'm curious so her and I got to share his cock together. It was fucking amazing! We both agreed we much prefer this hit-n- run tactic. Cut to recently, as in just this week, we may have finally found our first someone to consider a potential repeat candidate. The wife seems very intrigued, and he's been a good chat with me also. For those of you that have already been to this point, have many of you continued on to allow solo overnights with her and another man? Is that a common thing among lifestyle couples into hotwifing? I ask, because she recently mentioned the possibility of being up for a solo overnight with the right guy. I was dually rock hard and caught in surprise. It was a good surprise, but a little edgy feeling. How have some of you approached this if it crept up on you? Was it just another step in the process? Did you feel as if it encouraged more of a poly type lifestyle, being they would be alone in his place intimately, and maybe that's more encouraging of a deeper relationship? I don't know. I'm kinda just thinking out loud and looking for others approach es to these challenges being new in the lifestyle. It helps me steer the path a bit knowing there are plenty of approaches. Thanks in advance.