We talked about this for years, played with it, discussed and and decided to give it a try this april. you can look at my post history for more info.

She had her first solo experience in mid july. It’s been a month and she has had 3 solo experiences with 2 different guys. we have now officially had 2 mfm threesomes. 1 was kind of lame but the guy was funny, casual and although he ended up mostly watching and joined for foreplay he was still and okay choice. sex wasn’t great with him but he was light hearted and I think half the time we hung out with him we were laughing.

the next mfm was a lot better, different guy. No experience but definitely more into it and not nervous about joining, respectful etc.

We are also in communication with a couple. They aren’t super close but close enough that it’s a matter of time. Scheduling has kept us all from meeting personally, although she does know who I am from when I used to party a lot when I was single.

I think we are kind of hooked, we are having a blast, word is out we are ENM but we honestly did a bad job at hiding it… thanks tinder lol. but that doesn’t bother us. in some ways it has made it easier.

No flakes yet, 2 canceled dates for her but those did seem genuine and he did come through later on. We know we don’t want to continue at the rate we have been, but once we opened that box we figured we may as well explore it and see what we like and what we can do without and find more that we are curious about.