So I’ve been wondering if it’s ethical or not to refrain from disclosing I’m a hotwife when meeting men out at the bar. I’ve probably only told one man I’ve hooked up with spontaneously that my husband knows. The rest of them I let believe I was cheating, all of them thus far have been turned on by it. It turns me on too to have them believe they seduced a married woman into sex in less than a couple hours. I dress to impress, keep my wedding ring on and no anklet. Little do they know I tell my husband immediately after with novel level detail while he reclaims me. Is it wrong to let them think I was cheating or does it not matter?