My wife and I are high school sweethearts and for a long time I’ve wanted to see her with another guy. We’ve talked about it a lot, and came very close a few times, but it as never actually happened. For some life reasons the pursuit of that fantasy is temporarily on hold, but I can’t help but continue to think about it and how it may have started.

I am just curious if anyone else has a similar experience or by chance strike gold and make contact with the guy that was involved in the start of it back in the day.

I love taking photos of my wife. I have thousands. She loves dressing up for me and posing. For the longest time, we loved sharing her picutres on a now defunct web forum. It was a community that would truly lust after her, she would see the positive comments and keep our little hobby going. We would spend our weekends at the mall looking for the next outfit or searching for something someone asked her to wear. I had never really wanted to see her with any of these guys, I more so loved the pursuit of seeing her get excited and keeping my obsession of taking pictures of her.

During this time span, my wife was working at a popular fast food chain. She was the manager, and pretty much all of the other staff were guys. She would often work past midnight with these guys and inevitably would discuss personal matters, sex etc. I knew this and was fine with it. I trusted her and knew she enjoyed being flirty. One day, she was away on a trip visiting her parents and a message popped up on our computer from one of her coworkers describing how proud he is of her for sharing the website of her pics. I lost my mind. We had an implicit expectation of discretion. I was worried the pictures would get leaked and could be used against her. We had a huge fight. We stopped sharing pictures online. We got paranoid, deleted the forum thread, and the hobby was dead.

Shortly after that, I started to wonder HOW that discussion came up with her coworker. How she shared the pictures. What did he think? What did he see? Does he still have the pictures? Who else saw them? What was the workplace energy like after that? Unfortunately she shut down and didn’t want to talk any more about it in those details. But that was absolutely the start of my hotwife fantasy. From that point forward I couldn’t stop thinking and wondering. Fantasizing about her and him in the break room. All fabricated by my imagination, but so hot.

We have long since worked through any issues about the picture sharing incident and in hindsight recognize how we both (mostly me) reacted. I also know it is not the most healthy way to get started in this kink, but keep in mind this has unfolded over nearly 15 years. She has lost contact with those coworkers, but we have one guy friend that has come VERY close being in an MFM with us, multiple times. Something I think a lot about.

Anyway, sorry for the wall of text. If this situation sounds familiar to you or if on the off chance you still have saved pictures of my wife I’d love to hear from you :) Maybe we will share more online some day, every once in a while we drop one on Reddit for old times sake but then we delete it because, you know, the internet has changed a lot since we used to post on that simple forum.