Is it common for guys to be able to switch - watching his partner get fucked to fucking partners of others? I used to be more on the stag side and had a lot of shame around having this kink. I felt like I'm inherently lacking something that other men have. I know some people even can get off on those thoughts, but for me, I didn't like the inferior feeling this thought gave me. Well, since some time I started to fantasise about fucking other people's girlfriends and I am able to get a huge rush from it. I simply love this setup and hope I am able to make it a reality one day. Having had stag fantasies for a long time, I feel like I know exactly what to do to the girl to make her and her partner happy. But the best part of discovering this switch button is being able to embrace being on the stag end without shame. It's like, we're all just roleplaying, the guy takes my wife, I find it hot, but at the end of the day it's just kind of a roleplay and on some other day I can do the same to the guy's wife while he watches. It's so liberating to not believe this roleplaying is the reality - that the guy is objectively better in bed than me - I know this can get some ppl off but for me it was an obstacle to embracing this fetish. I like knowing I have both sides in me. And me enjoying someone fucking my girl doesn't have to say much about me apart from the situation. Some would say that this isn't hotwife fetish but just swinging but I disagree - I think hotwifing puts emphasis on a girl being somebody's partner and including the partner in some way. For me going to swinger party and fucking a single girl, or having a swap has much different flavour than the 3 of us being involved. I would like to hear your thoughts about it. Have many of you are able to switch their gears and be bull on one night and stag for another?