My wife and I have had the talk, About opening up our marriage one sided for her to explore.

She's sexually more demanding than I am, her libido is through the roof. Where as mine isn't.

However...I'm kinkier than she is and love to try new things.

These are some of the texts she has told me during our conversations that have burnt into my mind.

"I wonder how i would actually act if i ended up having some sort or intimate relationship with someone else. I genuinely dont know if i'd tell you about it. Not that i would hide it from you. Just could see myself coming home all relaxed and freshly fucked. Smelling of sex"

"But then not really giving you any details about it. You just watching me later as i undress"

So that started out sexy.... But then we transitioned to this...

"I'm clear that you would not be bothered, even would be excited or at least think you would be. I think you're glossing over the fact that in order to have a relationship with someone, i am tuned into them and only them for that time. No one else exists. You dont like it when i am not paying as much attention to you. I think you're underestimating how much you would miss my sexual attention"

"I'm saying that there is a risk that it happens like that. Esp if all you're excited about it getting to watch without any focus on making sure it comes from a place of us playing. The reality if us not being super well matched sexually and then giving each other reign to fund other partners is that we might find people better matched. I might find someone who i get reciprocates the energy more along the same level. Then what?"

"So what I hear is that you would be ok with the sexual part of our relationship to end. You would not be ok with no longer having access to my attention and care"

"If i choose to have sex with someone else, it will be because i find them attractive and they make me feel hot as hell and irresistible. Why would they want to share me? If i am that attractive to you, why would yoi want to share me?"

It's been about a month since we had this conversation. And I have left it alone. I haven't brought it up. And we've been having a ton of sex compared to before.

We used to fuck 1-2x bi weekly, now we fuck 2-3x a week.

So all of those are incredibly insightful.

Then she followed it all up with...

"Why would you want to hsve sex with me when im satisfied and sleepy? Why would i want to have sex with you at that point? Ill be good Fyi the idea of you not being intimidated by me having sex with others because you know i like your cock best is much sexier in my mind than oh go have sex with others so i can see you satisfied. Well then you have some convincing to do. I need to be convinced that you can fuck me back. Because recent sex has been hot."