My wife and I have discussed my fantasy of her having sex with another man. The origin of this desire was very hard to explain to her as I couldn’t explain why I have it. She did question any underlying motives such as holding it over her head so that I could fuck other women, it I explained it’s not about that at all. I explained that a big part of the pleasure I gain is seeing her experience the ultimate pleasure of having sex with another younger, hot guy possibly with a larger dick than mine who really makes her feel desired. She did express that it is exciting thinking about it, and I have sent her things to read, scenarios that I’ve texted, and videos to which she agreed are exciting. We opened profiles on a few platforms and she is not yet finding that perfect guy, but I understand this will take time, and she deserves to find the best candidate for her.

Another great step, the juiciest of this post, is that I downloaded the Spicier App. This is an app that has sex surveys that you and your partner can take and see which responses match. The app has another feature called “Dares” where you send your partner dares that they can do within a certain timeframe. Well, I sent my wife a dare which was to send me the dirtiest text you can think of. Her text was, “You cum inside me and then lick my clit to get hard again. Once you’re hard, you slide your cock in and out of me a few times the. Bring your cock to my mouth so I can lick both our juices off your cock!” Needless to say, that got me instantly hard. She sent me a dare back, “Describe a scenario that you imagine that gets you hard instantly.” Her text made me think of sloppy seconds which I love, so the scenario I typed back was this: “Taking your text a step further: I am laying on a hotel bed right next to you holding your hand, kissing you, and sucking on your nipples while you are on your back having the most pleasurable sex you’ve ever had with a hot guy who has a bigger dick than me. It’s big enough to full you up and make you cum multiple times, but not so big that it is painful. You’re moaning in pleasure and you can feel he is about to cum because you can feel his cock start to pulsate inside you, so you firmly grasp his ass with both hands, wrap your legs around him and pull him in deeper and after a few more pumps he lets out a huge load of cum that you can feel shoot deep inside your pussy. As this is happening you moan loudly, cum at the same time, and pull his face to yours and kiss him passionately. He stays in you and pumps his cock a few more times rubbing his cum inside your drenched inner walls. He moves off you and I immediately get between your legs with euphoric excitement seeing the pleasure on your face and your bodily reaction. I slide my cock in you and can feel the warmth of his cum and your juices together. I’m so turned on that I don’t last very long and you know I am about to shoot another load inside you so you wrap your arms and legs around me and we kiss as all my cum pulsates inside you. You then tell me to bring my cock to your mouth so that you can lick and suck off all our juices and taste us all.”

To this, she replied, “Nice, love the details.” I was hoping for more excitement and I asked, “does it turn you on?” She replied, “yeah as long as that guy that turns me on.”

So to me this is a baby step but a positive leap as she didn’t shoot it down and liked it. It’s back to the matter of finding that right guy!