My wife and I are pretty well known in our small city. Which was part of the reason we had hesitation looking for guys. We agreed to this in april, mostly just a few close friends knew what we were up to.

Well… we are out now. The guy she was seeing told a couple people who told a friend of hers that knew.

My wife also got pretty drunk this past weekend and told a few good friends of hers while at a wedding. (she apologized after, she was not thinking that this is my kink and didn’t want it advertised). to which I reminded her that we knew this was a risk, she was on tinder stating we had an open relationship.

All in all, I’m not worried, or upset. I’ve always had a good reputation, and generally get along with anyone. So i’ll ride on that, people here are generally not shocked by the things I do or have done.

We have also discovered we aren’t the only people, people we are close to actually have similar kinks or lifestyles we are just more open then they are now. Which honestly may give us an advantage in moving forward.

we have a double wedding weekend coming up in the next month so that will be our next big social events. One is somewhat higher profile. so see what that weekend is like. plan as always is just be show everyone we are still best friends and very much in love, just a bit more kinky behind closed doors.