After a very successful first experience (you can read about it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/HotWifeLifestyle/comments/152issf/my_first_hotwife_experience_was_sexless_but/), my fiancé and I kept talking about it and we decided that the second experience shouldn’t be with the same guy because I really don’t wanna mess with coworkers, but it was a really fun experience anyway.

I felt ready and wanted to take further steps and try more stuff like giving a handjob and maybe even oral, but not ready for full sex yet. We decided to try on tinder since most people there are trying to hook up, but I did set up some filters like men 40 and, small radius to where I live and some other interests as well. Our plan was that I would browse and show him my matches after a couple of days and together we would pick some guys to try, we were both comfortable with that idea.

After we picked 4 guys, I talked first with the guy that was most attractive to me. He had already messaged me when we matched, so I picked up the conversation, and after a few messages I knew he was indeed looking for sex. So I explained the situation, that I’m starting hotwife, my fiancé is okay with it, and that before anything sexual happens I would like to meet first. He was interested, he said that had experience in the lifestyle before with another couple and then invited me to dinner to a very nice restaurant. We kept talking for a few more days, getting to know each other.

Talked to my man about it, I wanted to go so he was okay with it. We talked about what we expected to happen at this date. I said we were only getting to know each other and I didn’t really expected anything sexual to happen. He said the knew the guy was going to try anyway, so why not have a back up plan. We agreed that if I felt the date went good and the guy wanted to make a move, I would play with him in his car. Give him a hand job, maybe even blow job and we were both curious to see how he would repay the favor.

The day of the date came, he would pick me up at night, so my fiancé and I got ready, wore the same outfit as before (sorry not sorry) and we made love before the date. My date picked me up, he greeted me with a tight hug, he was a gentleman from the beginning and he was very attractive as he looked in his pics. On the way to the restaurant he touched my leg in a "playful" way but I was very aroused. Keep in mind he's an older man (He's 44, I'm 25) and I've always found older men very attractive, so it was very arousing for me to be in this situation. Dinner started going very well, he ordered a bottle of wine and we really hit it off with a very friendly conversation. As the bottle started to go down, the conversation started to get flirty at times, until he proposed to have dessert at his place. As I wasn't really expecting to go that, I needed to talk to my fiancé about it, so I went to the restroom and called him. We talked about it, he said since it wasn't very late I could go for a drink at his place and proceed with the same plan if I wanted to. So I shared my live location and we agreed to text often. So I decided to go just for a little while and have some fun. When I returned to the table he had already paid the check and was ready to leave.

The way to his place was one of the most intense moments of my life, I felt adrenaline, excitement, but I also felt nervous and a little scared, because at the end of the day I was going to the home of a kind-of stranger. I was texting my fiancé everything I was feeling and he told me just to relax and have fun and to enjoy myself and to don't force anything. I started to relax as we got to his place, he was being a true gentleman and very nice host. He put some music, served a couple of drinks and we just continued chatting like we were doing at the restaurant, except this time we were on a couch and sitting closer. He started touching my leg and that started turning me on, we started to get closer and closer until he made the move and started to kiss me at the same time his hand went up my skirt reaching my panties. I was wet already but this got me dripping. After a few minutes of intense make out and touching and feeling cock get hard, I decided to go for my goal and unzip his pants. He had a really fucking nice dick, very decent sized and all shaven. I was hypnotized by it, started stroking it slow and steady, and I just needed to taste it, so I started to give him a blow job. As I started he stopped me and told me tried to get me completely naked, I reminded him that I wasn't expecting sex tonight but that I'm down to fool around, he told me it's okay but to get naked anyways since it was hotter that way and tbh I agreed, so we both got completely naked and I continued to give him oral. I was really enjoying this man's cock, I was just getting wetter and then he started touching me... He started to play with my pussy and he felt how wet I was and said: "Wow you're so ready for my cock, let's go to the bed baby", I told him that I wasn't feeling ready to fuck but that I'd be happy to blow him til he comes. He said "Okay, give me a blow job at the bed, it's more comfortable", so I agreed, deep inside knowing I was just giving him more chances to fuck me. He laid down and I continued to blow him. He again started touching me and I was really turned on by it. I had to stop because I was almost moaning. Then he laid me on my back, told me to close my eyes and started eating me out, I reached a couple of orgasms and was enjoying it a lot, since I had my eyes closed didn't notice when he was getting ready to enter me until his dick touched my pussy. I didn't want to stop him, so I didn't... I let him fuck my brains out and I moaned in pleasure like I never did before. I won't go into detail but after it ended I wasn’t the same woman.

I texted my fiancé that I was about to jump in the shower and to come and pick me up. When I was in the shower, after a few minutes my bull joined and started touching me again. I told him it was amazing and I wanted to doing again someday but I really needed to shower. He didn’t stop touching me and I started to get turned on again. Before I knew it he was fucking me again in the shower… I had no chance I was completely gone in a sexual ecstasy. After we were done, I laid in his bed to get myself together but I fell asleep.

I woke up 3 hours later to missed calls from my fiancé who had been waiting for me for hours. My bull was asleep as well. I woke him up to tell him I was leaving, we french kissed good bye and he opened the door for me.

I’m still processing all this and talking about it with my partner but I wanted to share the experience. Lessons learned, had a good time.