Some context: Howtwife/stag dynamic One of our guidelines is we meet up with the third in a public place to check the vibe and chemistry before scheduling anything further or occasionally we will invite them back to the house then and there.

So the Wife has a couple of potentials in her DMs and they are excited to meet up. We are parents and have had some busy weekends so we have had to ask for some patience.

However, it has me wondering what others do. Does Hubby go with you to vet a guy? After how many meetups do you think it is fine for her to play solo? Any tips you follow for safety? Is it risky to let her go to a public place without me? Obviously her comfort level is a factor in this.