So my wife and I are going to dip our toes in the lifestyle. We were in an open relationship for 2 years and have been exclusive since then (3 years). We both saw other people and had some no strings attached fun. She didn’t want that anymore and felt too insecure to continue so we stopped it completely. Lately, I have pushed around the idea to her and she at first didn’t want it. But now that she has sufficient trust on me and is convinced that I’m not doing this to get permitted to sleep with other women, she is absolutely onboard. I find the idea of unleashing the sexual goddess in her and me being her support system/ primary man very hot. We recently went to a secluded resort and she basically flashed in the middle of the resort and this turned us on so much and we decided we are going to do it because all we could think of during the time was we need a guy to fuck the brains out of her while I record them, we have a video we made in the resort coming soon ;) We plan on starting it whenever we are on a trip. What are the pros and cons of the lifestyle? What should we take care of? What has been your experience and what things would you do differently if you started all over again