I’ve been in the so called hotwife lifestyle for over 14 years. In one of my encounters with one of my regular guys I decided to accept his offer and spend the night at his place. My husband was aware and ok with it. He was married and his wife was out of town. Early next morning, his wife (never met her) showed up on an early flight and woke us up holding a gun in her hand and screaming bloody murder. I was afraid she might do something stupid and when she kicked me out of the house completely naked while waving a pistol in my face, I complied. She kept my clothes and purse with my car keys, some cash, phone and wallet. A neighbor gave me a robe and arranged for transportation for me saying that he’s good friends with the guy and they’ll settle later on. I returned later to get my car and all for tires were flat but not damaged and my car was spray painted all over with some dirty words. I posted this story in a different post and some high morals redditors accused me of being a home wrecker or breaking “the rules”. You tell me if I was the bitch or that crazy wife? Thank you