A bit of background: My wife and I have been in the swinging lifestyle for about 3 years now and have been flirting with Hotwifing for about a year. I’d define the flirting stage as her posting and chatting online and through video, which has been extremely hot for both of us.

Recently we took things to the next level and she’s met up with someone to play with alone twice. Without going into too many details, we felt 100% comfortable with this guy and it went off without a hitch. She had amazing kinky sex, captured key moments on video (along with an incredible facial 🥵), and the reconnection sex was electric for both of us.

Now I am planning on watching her with another guy on the next occasion. Just wondering what to expect mentally? How to prepare for it? We have incredible communication, love, trust, etc. but I know it’s going to intensify everything in a way that not being right there might not. It’s also going to take me out of the realm of fantasy, where I am semi in control of what’s happening in my head to just being totally along for the ride.

Phew! 😅

It sounds HOT but also nerve wracking, and possibly awkward at points? So for those of you more experienced than me, what do you wish someone had told you before your first time watching?

Also, if you’ve seen my wife’s content (link in profile), you know I like to film her. So thinking about making that a component of this as well if the guy is down. Feel like I will need something to do, and I don’t have any interest in playing this time—just watching.

Thanks for any words of wisdom you can provide!