My wife is an attractive woman in her 40’s and whose sex appeal attracts men of all ages. In the last the last few years, our bedroom was dead due to issues on my end.

Earlier this year, we went out for Mexican and on our 2nd margarita, she told me that she needed “dick in her life.” I acknowledged the issue, took responsibility, and finally told her about my issues. I also told her that I was thinking about her remark as well and suggested she fuck a 20-something guy who was pursuing her at work. Her eyes bulged and she almost spit out her drink! As we talked, she started asking a lot of questions such as if I wanted to watch, take pics, etc. I told her no, but I reserved the right to. All I wanted was for her to have an orgasm that wasn’t from her own hand and I wanted the details. I also learned that the young guy has a huge 10” dick and my wife had a few pics she shared with me. Thinking about this had the unintended consequence of me being turned on.

The months passed and the young guy flaked out of each date he had asked my wife out on. Meanwhile, things started improving with us but ENM was still on the table. Last month, a male friend of hers was in our neighborhood and my wife had plans to meet up with him. I had plans to visit some friends so I asked if she was interested in this guy. She certainly was, so I told her I was okay with it if she wanted to have sex with him. The excitement on her face told me everything. I got home late and she was asleep. I woke up the next morning and saw my wife’s huge grin. She told me everything that happened. I was not jealous (we’ve been together too long and been through so much for that). However, I was really turned on!

A couple of weeks ago, my wife and I tried having sex but I couldn’t perform despite taking Viagra. I was very depressed as you can imagine. My wife thought I was irreparably done so she got on an app called Feeld. It turns out the little pill I thought I took was still in my pocket!

Anyway, I digress. She got way over a thousand likes and was overwhelmed. She got on Feeld once or twice a day to scroll some, but did nothing with it. Until a few days ago. She liked back a guy she found interesting and he replied right away. She was nervous as hell! To make a long story short, after lots of texts and a long FaceTime call, he is flying into town tomorrow on business and they have a date lined up. Last night, she was wondering if she could go through with it. She said she just can’t have sex with random guys and she needs to feel a connection. I acknowledged and said that she has no obligation and meeting for a drink shouldn’t be an issue. He’s in town for a week and she can take it slowly if she wants. Anyway, they are going out and he did agree that if they had sex, that I wanted a BJ video. It has to be a win/win/win right?

I had mentioned to her a couple of times about what the hotwife lifestyle is, but she doesn’t see herself as one. That got me thinking about it too. Is she a HW? And what am I? I’m certainly NOT into humiliation or anything like that but I have to acknowledge to myself that the thought of other men finding my wife desirable and having sex with her is a turn on. It has also forced me to get my life & health back on track and we feel more intimacy towards each other. So are we in the “lifestyle” or not?

PS, I will keep you posted on how it goes with her date tomorrow night.