I've been married for 7 years and totally monogamous, but I'm kinda bored by the sex tbh. I need something more exciting and my wife has started getting frustrated at my lack of sex drive.

She has started getting close to a guy at work, she was pretending they were totally just friends but she was obviously flirting with him regularly and they were talking obsessively. I confronted her on the flirting and asked her to stop at first but then I realised I was getting turned on by it in a way I haven't felt for a long time.

So I made a little contract sort of thing for a short term open relationship with certain terms and I asked her opinions on it. She seemed very excited straight away. So we've now made our relationship open and if anyone asks were both just experimenting with other people to try and spice things up a bit. I don't know if I'll be doing anything on my side though.

So the last couple of days we've been discussing how she's going to flirt with the guy from work and joking about how I'm getting my wife a fuck buddy. She's going to show him she's interested then wait for him to make a move.

I've asked her if I can know all the details, see all the messages and find out what she did with him. I might ask for pictures/videos too. She went to work this morning and was asking me if she looked good and I was telling her how to start flirting with him.

It's giving me an excited horny feeling like I haven't felt since I was a teenager and I want to masturbate whenever I think about her trying to get this guy to make a move then go and sleep with him. It feels amazing and I think I'm going to really enjoy this.