For some context, me (mid-30’s M) and my wife (around the same age) have been together for 10 years and married for 2. I am the one and only sex partner for my wife. I dabbled around in my younger years so I can’t quite say the same. I’ve had a hotwife fantasy for well over 10-years, just never knew it had a name!

I don’t know if I could ever pull the trigger and watch my wife fuck someone, but the idea is so fucking hot and would like to at least explore. I started out several months back by purchased a toy for my wife (we really didn’t have anything for the bedroom prior). It’s been a big hit! And selfishly I enjoy using it on her while she gives me head. The way she moans while I’m inside her mouth is amazing. And she has to be fantasizing the real thing, right? Well I’m trying to keep our exploration going so decided to take her to a sex store to look around (the first time I went solo). This ended up being a great conversation starter for a lot of kinks I would otherwise be too shy to bring up. I asked her to pick out whatever she wants and she picked a butt plug and playfully said “maybe if you get me drunk enough we can use this”. I had NO idea she was even curious about butt play so my mind was blown! We have yet to use it (just purchased it within the past few days) but I’m hoping this will open her up to DP. Who knows where this is going and if she will ever become a hotwife, but this build up is incredibly exciting and I wanted to share.