So my gf(25) and I(31) have been dating a long time. She knows I am hugely into the hotwife stuff. We tried actually doing it twice and it went ok. I loved it but she said it wasn’t really her cup of tea. She enjoys being dominated but really wants me to take control. I enjoy dominating her but it’s not necessarily my forte.

Recently she was explaining that she doesn’t want me to ask her if I can do something. She wants me to make her do stuff and she wants to fight it a little bit but have me draw out what her body secretly wants even tho she is trying to fight that she wants it. Like basically “just fuck her until she melts into submission” is how she phrased it.

Was wondering if I could apply and mix that with my fetish. Like be somewhat dominating and not ask if she wants to do something with another guy but tell her im going to fuck her with a guy with a big dick; and then just bring a guy, or guys, over and “fuck her until she melts”. We have a safe word but I would worry it would go bad bc her fetish kind of relies on limited communication