I know a lot of people are against solo play or whatever but we have been through this together 100 times and we are fine with it. We both want shared experiences but are both good with her having her own fun and me getting details.

Wife has been talking to a guy, I know him, he knows me. I’m gone this weekend for 3 nights.

Nothing is scheduled but she has debated getting a night to her self and having sex with him. I am fine with that. We have talked about this for a few years and this will be her first time.

My only issue is that I am going to be out, i’ll be busy and occupied but there won’t be communication. which will leave me with a “is she, did she” and i do find that incredibly hot, but 3 nights… plus i won’t have privacy either…

i would prefer she met with him before and then if she wanted to take advantage of a weekend alone i would be fine with it. cause i would assume they would and i feel like that would take the edge off for me. it’s the wondering that is going to get to me.

we explored a bit with another guy and she spent the night but he was too caught up on his ex and they didn’t do anything. but i figured she would go to his place and have sex at some point over the night. she did but he had some issues and that’s why my wife lost interest for the time being. So it’s not like i don’t know how i’ll handle it, i assumed she did until she gave me a run down of the night and could tell she was a little let down.

we’ve talked about her having sex this weekend. she knows how i feel. it’s not that i don’t want her to explore it, it is more that i’m not looking forward to 3 days of sexual frustration form the anxiety. again i will be busy with my friends and having fun. so there is no other place i would rather be for that experience. half of them also know we are exploring this. so i do have some people to at least get it off my chest.

So that is where we are at.