posted yesterday, wife was on tinder. got a lot of attention, and a good amount of creeps. she had a date, wasn’t feeling it (just coffee). but has made a connection with a guy we actually know from around town and through social functions. she explained to him what is up. he knows we are married and had actually asked a common friend when he saw her with another guy a few weeks ago.

she showed me the messages, definitely some flirting and some sexual innuendos going on. they exchanged numbers. she was pretty excited and it was fun to see her flirty but also honest text when she explained what we both want and that our relationship is extremely healthy and happy.

she had quite a bit of attention and was definitely overwhelmed by it all. made a few other matches but they didn’t get as far. it’s a good start. her first experiences with online dating as well, mine too honestly. it’s been tough because i am stuck on nights and i don’t want to pry and give her space to do her thing. but we have discussed it. she has shared a bunch, had a few laughs and she has asked to make sure i’m still okay with it all.