As time has gone on I've been more and more open with my girlfriend about my thoughts and fantasies about her with other guys. She knows I like hearing about her past and in bed doesn't mind when I dirty talk about it and it makes it really hot. We even went clothes shopping to get her clothes that show off her body and that was a lot of fun. Thing is she is hardly if ever horny. It feels like no matter what I say or do she just isn't that interested or turned on enough to have frequent sex.

We've been together 4ish years and certainly I have come to see she can be happy in a relationship with minimal sex. Then I think about how when an ex reached out to her she eventually sent him some pictures and even wanted to have sex with him but that didn't pan out for whatever reason so I know she can be turned on and want sex not just from me.

TLDR: Is anyone here with someone who is just naturally not as interested in sex as you are? How do you cope?