Ever since I discovered the hotwife lifestyle, I've been completely enamored by it. Now, I'm largely indifferent if not slightly repulsed by it.

I'm a male, and I had an MFM with a couple I've known for several years. Everyone had a good time and we all (from what I could see) wanted another.

So we scheduled a weekend away at an air BnB and had a series of threesomes over the weekend (Friday to Sunday).

Friday was fun, most of Saturday was fun, and Sunday wasn't.

Saturday evening I bang the girl. Then her and her partner start having sex but before long start arguing. She pushes him off her and arguing intensifies.

They ask me to leave and I do. I hear arguing upstairs and it's jealousy related. Eventually they come down and apologize for what happened and iterated several times over that it's not my fault and they're sorry.

They offered another threesome in the morning and I turned them down.

I hate arguing...I know it's a fact of life. But it's ruined my desire to have another threesome with them. The girl keeps texting and hinting about doing another but I'm not interested...I think because now I'm not 100% sure her partner is into this and might just be doing this to make her happy, although I can't be sure.

Do couples frequently break out into arguments in front of their thirds? If so, how does that scenario typically play out?

In my mind it seems such a shame to walk away from something I've wished so long for, but I also don't think I'd honestly be into it again given what happened previously, and that's not fair to them.