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My wife got stood up last night
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So me (30m) and my wife (29f) have been in this lifestyle a while with a stag/vixen type of relationship although we try not to label it. We took a little break while life got in the way etc so it’s been a couple of years since we last played. Either way this isn’t our first time round - However it’s the first time we’ve been stood up

A couple of months ago we decided it was the right time to get back into it. Now we’ve had luck on Feeld before so we decided to give it another go on the app

We thought we’d found the one, they had a connection and everything seemed to be going well

My wife was nervous about meeting up as it’s been a while but plucked up the courage to ask him, and they agreed to go out last night for a drink with no other intentions.

After 20 mins she text me and said she’s getting nervous he hadn’t showed up, and then 5 mins later she tried to call him and it just rang out

Honestly I was so hurt for her and I know she was also hurt. She came back and I hugged her and held her tight, I did my best to reassure her she was loved by me and by all of us at home and she cried. This isn’t like her she’s usually confident and outgoing

She hasn’t spoken about it since and doesn’t want to talk - which is fine our relationship is more important than the lifestyle. She blocked his number immediately after she got home

I just wanted any advice on if there is there anymore I can do to support her and help her heal?

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We’ve been stood up a few times, you’re doing a great supporting work and deserve tons of karma. It will probably happen again, together with you she will learn to laugh at it and just waive it off.

F*ck these assholes

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