48m brought it up to my hot af 45f wife 2 years ago. She’s been more than cool about it, letting me know how much she loves me, but also in the end saying it just won’t happen because she loves me so much. Ok, cool. I’m obviously so happy with that. This said, we role play and discuss how hot she gets for dick. She just does and she did before I married her. Again, all good.

When we were out recently at a sporting event, watching male pro athletes warming up, she told me she loved watching them and she was having a great time. I asked if she found them hot/sexy/etc, and she said she “would destroy them.” 🔥 I then casually said, we need to find the one who can destroy you. She said, “ I know” with a laugh. What a great night. She trusts me and that is everything, and why this fantasy might still be able to play out irl… so looking for your comments.

All this to say, I’m thinking (knowing her) that this will never happen unless I find the guys (I know her type) and that I’ll be the one to make the intro between them with me present. And then just going from there.

Do other stags do it this way for your hw? If you are the hw, do you prefer your husband to handle introductions, etc? Is it possible it works with success this way and, in fact , do some Hotwives prefer their husbands set up the play time?

I’m wondering if we eventually get there with me taking lead. My wife prefers I take lead on most things despite that I give her the freedom/choices she wants. Maybe she wants me to eventually get things rolling versus her taking the initiative?

Appreciate your knowledge and/or summaries of of your experiences.