So my question goes out to everyone here I guess. Background:

I've had minimal success on another site but it turned out to be someone I already knew and built some trust with beforehand. We had a ton of fun but it they moved away so it stopped. Ive been told I am a good looking guy, 6', blue eyes a decent body and decent size below the belt. I am very respectful to anyone I talk with, can carry a conversation, and generally fun to be around.

Question: I am finding it hard to break into this lifestyle as a 3rd. It seems that in any of these subreddits I browse all anyone seems to want is a 6 pack and 8 inches. I am not complaining in the slightest as people want what they want. I can respect that so I move on. Is all that legitimately matters is the size of your dick? This is purely a fact finding mission to determine if I am wasting my time trying to break into this lifestyle. The time I was successful was a lot of fun for all parties involved but the constant "massive cock required" posts are discouraging. Please no hate on this I am purely just inquiring to see if I am going down the wrong road here.

~Jay