Hopefully this post doesn’t get removed like my others have… (no clear reason for the others and I swear I read the rules…)

Any seasoned Hotwives have advice for managing the ups and downs? We know the ups — the huge confidence boost from a new bull/FWB, the excitement, the attention, the boost in sexual energy sharing with hubby… The downs of course are plentiful and the one I am trying to figure out is when you connect with someone and have a lot of fun (in person or online) and then it runs it’s course. I don’t sweat it when the chemistry ends up not being there, no biggie and part of it. But it’s interesting how you can be a little sad to say goodbye when your bull/FWB decides to start a monogamous relationship — or so they say? Lol cynical part of me just thinks that is a nice way to say goodbye.

Anyway… I’m sure it’s all just a learning curve but man the contrast between the highs of clicking with someone new, flirting with a few promising people and then the lows can be a bit tough — any advice?

Also, haven’t been in this long enough to see if people kinda come back to you after sometime has passed…