For context me and my wife are both 25 relatively young. We been dating for 5 years and been married for 2. We are both latinos I’m about 5”6 averagely skinny and my wife is 5”2 decently curved I would say. Personality wise I have always been a bit more shy and reserved whereas my wife is a much more social and playful person. Our relationship has always been great we both enjoyed spending time together as much as we can. We knew we loved each other very much and still do. Which is why to some extent I wasn’t ever really a jealous type even thou most of the time we went out she would be getting stares from other men. I would shrugged it off because I trusted my gf very confidently. I would sometimes catch her staring at guys back but didn’t think much of it as I thought it’s only natural for people to check others out. We carried on with our relationship approaching 3 years now. I was thinking of proposing to her soon as I was certain she was the one. Everything felt perfect in our relationship i was confident she is the woman I want to marry. The only slight draw back was our sex life wasn’t the most “electric” I would say. Don’t get me wrong we both enjoyed the sex but there was always a missing piece I couldn’t ever fulfill. Almost 3 years and no matter what I tried or how hard I tried I could never make my gf cross the finish line.(orgasm) As a man that was always troubling me because I could tell after about 5 of sex I would finish and my gf would lay down and not say anything for a few minutes. She always told me to not to worry I just have to give it time. Time? It’s been almost 3 years and I can’t satisfy my women in that department how much time do I need. None the less I just shoved it aside and began getting things ready for the proposal. I can deal with the sex situation later I would say besides we are happy together. I’ll be honest with y’all the proposal didn’t scare me because I was confident the answer was going to be a yes. Spoiler alert it was. We are now officially engaged! Perhaps you might think it was all love and roses after the proposal and honestly I thought it was going to be too. But a week after the proposal I could see my gf a bit more quiet than her usual bubbly self. I asked what was wrong and she turned around and with a straight face she told me “I’m sorry but I cheated on you it was bothering me I didn’t want to keep it a secret I wanted to go into our marriage with no secrets”

Context of her cheating.

I was shocked as you could imagine why would I ever think my gf was going to cheat on me.

In a calm but annoyed voice I asked her “Where and when did this happend”

She replied “2 months ago when I went to “x” birthday party at the club” for context her best friend birthday was coming up so on a Saturday night they had a girls night out and went to club to have a few drinks and dance.

I replied “come on X seriously tell me your were Atleast drunk that it was a mistake”

She replied “ I was tipsy not drunk I knew what I was doing”

I just look at her for a moment in silence thinking if it was my fault this has happened. I then reply “what exactly happend”

In her POV she described being at the club with her friends having a good time. At first they started to have a couple of drink and would go to the dance floor and just have so fun. But a few hour within the night 2 attractive men approached her and her group of friends at their table. She would mention they were nice guys just having a conversation with all of us. About 15 minutes in she would add how the two men started to give their specific attention to her and another friend that has no relevancy to the story. She would describe the good time she spend talking with him at the table. How the guy had a good energy with him. The guy then invited her to the dance floor and would eventually dance with her all night. But at times when they would dance she could feel some intense energy between them.

(At this point of the story I was just quiet. I felt angry, disappointed but for some reason my heart was racing I could feel that my jeans were starting to bulge a bit) I ignored it and would just stare at my shoes as she keep telling her story.

It was almost time for the club to start closing up and everyone to start heading home. She mentioned she just told him she enjoyed herself and that it was time for her to leave with her friends. As she starts walking with her friends outside the guy approached my gf and her group of friends saying if it was alright with them if he walked my gf to her car. They all said yes and he began walking my gf to her car. She mentioned she thought it was sweet and didn’t think much of it. They talked outside her car for about 5 minutes about how fun that night was. As they said goodbye he hugged my gf wrapping his hands around his waist and gave her a kiss in the cheek. She told me she felt a bit shock and stared at the guy for a bit but felt compelled to reach over and start kissing him.

( At this point of the story she told me if I didn’t want to hear anymore of the story to tell her that she would understand but explained I just want you to know why it happened it’s not that I am not happy with you) I won’t lie to you I was very angry I felt like I wanted to just storm off but the only thing keeping me at my seat was the strange sensation of feeling so turned on. I replied “ just finish it in an angry voice “

Here is where she started to leave a lot of parts out as she felt uncomfortable and ashamed of having to explain how she cheated on me.

The started making out to which they quickly hopped in the back seat and began making out more. She would then say she ended getting on top of him and that’s when she felt a very strange but amazing sensation in her stomach. She said I felt things I never felt before and concluded that he made her orgasm.

I just looked at her speechless I mean what could I say? I then broke the silence and said “ did anything else happend”

She replied “no that was it and that has been the only time I seen him”

“I forgive you perhaps this is partly my fault as well” “let just look past this it was a mistake that won’t happend again” I said.

She stayed quiet for a few seconds and in a dissapoint es voice said “ I don’t think I want to stop I really enjoyed my self”

“Seriously?” I added

“Yes”

“What about our relationship?” I said.

“Well I don’t blame you if you want to break up with me but I can’t promise it won’t happene again”

And that’s how my journey started. There is many things I had to leave out in our conversation as the story would have been just too long. But i mentioned the key areas. Don’t get it twisted guys. We are happily married now

If you have any questions or want to talk to me about it PM me.