I talked to my wife about my kink. I first told her that I lust of her being with other dudes. We talked about it and she likes the idea of starting slow such as flirting. She says it's fun and that she might enjoy talking to other men.

Since I've told her she has started to want to go out more, she is dressing sexier. She even said she is fine with me flirting with other women as well. The other night before having sex she was watching porn, I asked what she was watching. She was watching a video of a wife cheating on her husband. She has mentioned in the past that being desired by people turns her on. She especially likes the idea of 'being neglected wife' and someone listing over her.

I take it as she really likes the idea, but doesn't want to fully admit it lol. What do you guys think? What should be the next step? I want to take baby steps.

That being said, how did you talk to your significant other? What was the first step yall took?