Late 40s husband/wife…advancing candaulism dynamic w/Hotwife fantasies. About six months back, I posted here looking for input on how to broach the topic of our more openly sharing her nudes with select friends.

I had previously shown two friends a handful of pix (with her permission) during a late night guys weekend. My wife and I later discussed sharing with one of them the username of our other, shared reddit account where we more frequently post her pix. Over time she gradually lost nerve and became uneasy about reaching out to him. Not for shyness around her pix, but for nervousness surrounding how her wanting to do so might be perceived.

Fast forward to this past weekend. Another, guys weekend with the same group. Ample boozing, and again, (after texting for her blessing), her pix once again came out for the same two guys.

Two interesting developments…

First, one of the friends commented on how much he appreciated her okaying the pix last year. At the time he was beginning a divorce from a sexless (for years) marriage, and at a pretty low point, and was somewhat grateful for her willingness to share with him. When I relayed this to her this weekend, she responded with a playful, smiling, ‘you’re welcome’.

Second, the (now almost finally) divorced friend has been seeing a new and very sexually open woman, (which is wonderful for him.). Among other things, she has been sexting videos of herself to him frequently. Though I caught a glimpse, he was hesitant to fully share without her green light, though he was quite motivated/interested to do so.

We left it that he would feel out her willingness to share further, and if so, would pass along her vids to me/us. With that dynamic established, I’m quite confident my wife will be back in for sharing our aforementioned reddit account.

I realize nothing has truly moved forward, but the anticipation for the very real possibility of a first video coming my way in the nearer term has been exciting to think about. I also acknowledge this post is not nearly as hot as many on this sub, especially compared to those long in the lifestyle. That said, I do enjoy those here that keep it real. Even us neophytes who get excited for even the smallest baby step forward!