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Hi all! Hubby and I are very new to the lifestyle and looking to dip our toes in, but have had trouble finding potential bulls. Guys in reddit seem to be either flaky or unverified and meeting guys in person hasn’t worked well either. Are there reliable websites with actual verified bulls where you can chat? Any advice would be much appreciated 😘😘
We see this asked on here so much it’s crazy. We are brand new to this as well, but have had very few issues with fakes / flakes. I would say take a deeper look at how you search and vet, because there are a ton of high quality thirds on Reddit and the other paid sites.
We find about 70% on SDC.com the other 30% on local subreddits. For example when we visit Vegas we post in r/lasVegasswingers and r/hotwifevegas. The paid sites seem to be regional so you will have to play with what’s best for your area.
I checked your profile and see you post pics and info so I’m very surprised you’re struggling to find what you’re looking for. Don’t get discouraged, because when it happens it’s so much fun!!! Here is a post we made about how we find and vet. https://www.reddit.com/r/HotWifeLifestyle/comments/138u08f/how_we_find_vet_potential_partners_if_you_have/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
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This is close to our mindset. We just don’t want to risk an unpleasant experience, a bad lay, or less than stellar hygiene. Vetting online gives us full control and confidence in the quality we’re seeking.