My husband introduced his long term fantasy of caging about a year ago. It was very very new to me and I had never even heard of it before but wanted to try it for him because I could tell how into it he was. I noticed he started getting very deep into research and it all started to seem a little too obsessive. After a short while he decided he isn’t into it and doesn’t want to do it anymore. Ok, fine by me.

My man is incredibly attracted to me, almost to the point of obsession and I love it, I think it’s fucking hot. After stumbling across some things very recently, my husband told me he is bi. That he has had sex with a man, and liked it. I have never been so shocked by a statement in my life. I have been as understanding as I can be while letting him know I still love him, while also trying to process all of this. But it seems his steam for it all hasn’t stopped. It looks like his obsession with cages has now moved onto hotwifing and the like. He told me last night he wants me to get fucked by a bigger dick while he watches. He was sooo turned on by it all. He told me he wants to clean me up, and it eventually graduated to he wants to taste me on the other guys dick, and suck it to get it wet so he can put it inside me. I was all in on the fantasy so that he could feel comfortable getting into it, and he ended up deep throating my dildo several times, gagging and almost throwing up like 5x, and not wanting to stop.

I know he liked it more than he ever thought. I made it clear I never want or feel comfortable with this translating to real life mostly because he is very self conscious and I know he would never recover from watching someone else fuck me, and me enjoy it even tho the idea is sexy to him. I’m afraid this fantasy will turn into a need to translate it to real life and I am looking for advice about that… What if he doesn’t want it to just be talk?? Could he really not want it in real life if he took a dick down his throat like that? How does he suck a dick better than me? This is a loooot to digest and I need some perspective. I feel fairly certain this is something I could “role play” with him in the bedroom, and keep between the 2 of us to satisfy his want for this… but is that really going to be enough? How will I ever know??