So we are definitely new to this but thankfully on the same page! The wife is wanting to try the same- so after months of talking fantasies (and rules) we finally took our first step forward.

We made a group snap chat with a friend of mine (who isn't part of either of our major friend groups just in case) and basically laid flat that we want to try a mfm or if he would want that he could fuck my wife. The conversation was honestly less awkward than I expected and he admitted he always found her hot.

Well so far we have kept just to the chat, with a "game night" planned for next week (with no guarantees but I'm definitely optimistic with how steamy the group snap has gotten lol).

Just wanted to share my story. Excited it's going well!