We've been playing for nearly a year after I finally convinced my wife to have an mmf. We had a gangbang last November and she really loved having every hole filled, and after two more encounters with new men she was in the mood to try again. So I really put the plan into action; booked a hotel room a month in advance, advert on Locanto, contacted candidates on Feeld, and even resurrected my old Fetlife account lol. Clearly stated the type of guy we were looking for, the date and time, we'd need to see an STI test, and that guests must be comfortable with DP.

Got nearly 30 responses, a few fake but mostly real, but half were just "oh I can't make it but please contact me in future when you want to play" or "can I see more pics plz thx". Of the remaining fifteen, five never messaged me back when I asked them to provide a self-destructing photo of themselves, five never messaged back when I asked to see the STI test, and of the remaining five:

one can't make it until ten pm (we're playing from seven to nine-thirty then we're going to go eat) one dropped out because he didn't realise it was a gangbang (like wtf) and two are not replying when I ask them to tell me when they arrive at the hotel so I can give them the room number

So now we're in a huge hotel room (free upgrade! yay!), my wife has spent the last hour cleaning and stretching her ass in preparation for rough anal by a room full of horny guys, and ... just one person is going to show.

This is just a rant where I can let off steam but ... do any other husbands plan this kind of night out for their wives only to have nobody show up?

edit: oh and we had one guy message us last week saying "I guess I didn't make the cut" because he hadn't read the date, and just hung out near the hotel waiting for us to tell him the room number ...